Hello All. I to am a newbie and am loving the BB. I have the curve with Verizon. I do have a question about the BB Messenger though. When I send an e-mail req to have someone as a contact it sends the req to that persons e-mail and it will also pop up on my phone that I am requesting myself as a contact on my own phone! its almost like the email is being sent to the contact and to myself as well. Any ideas on how to fix this? As well I have a gmail acct if that helps.