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03-15-2010, 09:51 AM
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Hello folks,
First time to post here.
I have a for all you parents or whoever can answer my questions. I have my BB through my work. service is AT&T. My 15yr old daughter has hers through verizon. is there a way to geta copy of her text messages to my phone or email. This has been a touchy subject with her and our family and i know you got to let them go sooner or later. Just concerned is all.
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03-15-2010, 09:53 AM
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Well don't you pay the bill or maybe your wife does?
You can check all of that online, but you probably have to request a copy of the actual conversation from Verizon.
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03-15-2010, 09:57 AM
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I have read on here somewhere about a program that runs in the background that allows you to moniter everything... but its a touchy subject. The whole invasion of privacy and whether its legal or not....
here it is: http://forums.crackberry.com/f35/legal-436132/
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03-15-2010, 10:01 AM
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It's your kid and until they turn 18, they have no right to privacy as far as the parents are concerned. I think the only way to get what you want is through some spy ware that you would have to install on her phone. You'd have to try a search here or on google to find something that works.
I wouldn't worry about legalities. That would only be relevant if you were interested in trying to prosecute her for something you found on her phone.
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03-15-2010, 10:05 AM
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Can't you and your kid be honest with each other? Imo this is a horrible approach to find out what your kids are up to..parents and children that don't have trust in each other don't have much.. I know this first hand (I am the child). I suggest leaving your kid be a kid.. If you find out they are doing something they shouldn't be then you suspend their phone privelidges.. Just my opinion.. Sorry if it sounded rude
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03-15-2010, 10:11 AM
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Originally Posted by grotty  Can't you and your kid be honest with each other? Imo this is a horrible approach to find out what your kids are up to..parents and children that don't have trust in each other don't have much.. I know this first hand (I am the child). I suggest leaving your kid be a kid.. If you find out they are doing something they shouldn't be then you suspend their phone privelidges.. Just my opinion.. Sorry if it sounded rude
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03-15-2010, 10:12 AM
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Originally Posted by BigBadWulf Dang! How'd I grab the wrong quote the first time? You either don't have teenagers, or live in a dream world. Trust but verify, Posted from my CrackBerry at wapforums.crackberry.com |
That kids parents are tracking him with his bb.
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03-15-2010, 10:19 AM
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Originally Posted by baberz [/CENTER] That kids parents are tracking him with his bb. | Understood, and I whole heartedly agree on. I'd hate for anyone else to find out what their daughter was up to like I did. WAPers do it With A Passion
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03-15-2010, 10:21 AM
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Originally Posted by BigBadWulf Understood, and I whole heartedly agree on. I'd hate for anyone else to find out what their daughter was up to like I did. WAPers do it With A Passion If everyone spoke Wulfanese™, they wouldn't need to click here for a translation.
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| Oh you stop that! Atleast I was completely honestly with you!!
Doesn't that count for something?!
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03-15-2010, 10:22 AM
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Originally Posted by grotty Can't you and your kid be honest with each other? Imo this is a horrible approach to find out what your kids are up to..parents and children that don't have trust in each other don't have much.. I know this first hand (I am the child). I suggest leaving your kid be a kid.. If you find out they are doing something they shouldn't be then you suspend their phone privelidges.. Just my opinion.. Sorry if it sounded rude
Posted from my CrackBerry at wapforums.crackberry.com | I am a 27 year old male, with a 4 month old daughter.
make a long ugly story short, i dealt with middle class to lower class kids day in and day out for 3 solid years, all on volunteer work. And today's kids are not the "today's kids" that were 5/10/15 years ago. It's shocking to hear what some of these kids do, what they say, and how they act. If kids worried about being kids, instead of talking/acting/looking/trying to be adults. you'd have a valid argument, but in 2010 it's an invalid argument. and i think it boils back down to parenting.
I will be the first to tell you that when my daughter hits "cell phone age", the only number she will know is her "google voice" number (if it is still around).... i want to have full control of who/what/where/where and why of her cell phone conversations. I do not trust "today's kids".... i knew what kind of trouble i could of got into, if i didn't have the parents that struck the fear of god into me.... and with Government Social Services, and Child Protects Programs, that view punishment as child abuse.... it's really make me sick to my stomach to see where kids will be in 13-18 years.
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03-15-2010, 10:23 AM
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This is literally no different than your boss spying on your phone, and busting you for whatever you do that they see as wrong. Let your kids make mistakes. Yeah, we live in a crazy time with technology, but that doesn't make spying on them ok, or justified. Parents like you guys are the whole reason a country gets away with phone tapping, people disappearing, etc, etc. It kind of makes me sick how far you'll go to 'protect' this generation.
Clearly, lawn darts didn't clear out enough of the crazies of Generation Y. Despite what kind of bubble you want to create for your kid, they'll either break it and do what they want regardless, or you'll just keep distancing your children from you.
When you're alone on your deathbed, and your kid won't talk to you, try to remember the name of the spyware that caused that rift.
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03-15-2010, 10:26 AM
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Hey just saying.. Wait till your kid finds out your trying to pull this crap on them..they will never trust you again I'm sure..my p's used to pull crap like this on me.. And now we have a horrible relationship..I'm being realistic here and not living in a dream world.. If I was in a dream world I'd have a good relationship with my folks
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03-15-2010, 10:28 AM
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I fully understand why you wanna track them with every move they make.
It's disgusting how things are in today's world.
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03-15-2010, 10:28 AM
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Originally Posted by baberz [/CENTER] Oh you stop that! Atleast I was completely honestly with you!!
Doesn't that count for something?! | Not you silly, the one who found huge trouble. There's a man in jail for life (168 year sentence), and a twerp in Toronto who got away with far more than he should, because my wife at the time thought our daughter was "honest" with us. WAPers do it With A Passion
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03-15-2010, 10:29 AM
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Originally Posted by grotty Hey just saying.. Wait till your kid finds out your trying to pull this crap on them..they will never trust you again I'm sure..my p's used to pull crap like this on me.. And now we have a horrible relationship..I'm being realistic here and not living in a dream world.. If I was in a dream world I'd have a good relationship with my folks
Posted from my CrackBerry at wapforums.crackberry.com | When i would go out with my friends, i had to tell my parents where i was going. bottom line.
and my parents would take time out of their day to drive where i claimed to be. If i was there, i got more freedoms.
if i wasn't there i lost A LOT of freedoms and got in serious trouble.
Why not be honest about where you are going, who you are talking to, and what you are doing....
i'm not implying you didn't... but i'm just saying.
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