Hey qnzthg89, welcome to crackberry!
From what I can tell, you really are a newbie (

), so you have come to the right place.
However, before you dive into the deep end, I would advise that you get used to the water in the shallow end. By this I mean that you should take some time out to read through some tutorials regarding the phone, the associated software (both device software and desktop manager software), and also get familiar with update procedures. There are a lot of threads in these forums dealing with these topics. Go ahead, try a search.
I can assure you that you will save yourself a lot of time and frustration by heeding to this friendly advice.
Good luck!