Ok... I try to add people to my BBMer and they get it but when they send to me I never get it... I can add by their blackberry email address like (johndoe@csouth1.blackberry.com) but not by the 312b21 or whatever the pin maybe... any ideas why????

After you choose add contact, scroll to the top and highlight use once, then press menu and choose request by pin.

:-) Thanks.... I was going nuts last night trying to add someone via pin lol

sweet! thanks sunkast! I just learned a new BB trick!!! awesome!

LOL you don't even wanna know how I WAS doing it!!!

lol Yeah I do... cause I prob was doing it the same way lol I tried everything last night to add someone... I added by other emails.. I restarted my BB a few times thinking it might help.... I deleted and added the pin in the email section like 50 times.... I went nuts... lol I honostly think I am a true blackberry addict... I love it...