Dumb reasons to be deleted off BBM

**Mz Unique** · 04-14-2009, 10:33 PM

Ok so I was just wondering how many others have been deleted off someone's BBM list because of something stupid. I've been using BBM for about 8 months now I've made about maybe 60-70 bbm friends and been deleted like over 30 times so far for these top 3 reasons:

1. I don't trade nudes
2. I have a boyfriend
3. I'm African American

I personally think it’s dumb to delete unless you’re constantly being harassed, but that’s just me. So if you’ve ever been deleted for something similar or different post and see how many more dumb or unnecessary reasons people get deleted.

**Cr0nichik** · 04-14-2009, 10:56 PM

Originally Posted by Mz Unique

Ok so I was just wondering how many others have been deleted off someone's BBM list because of something stupid. I've been using BBM for about 8 months now I've made about maybe 60-70 bbm friends and been deleted like over 30 times so far for these top 3 reasons:

1. I don't trade nudes
2. I have a boyfriend
3. I'm African American

I personally think it’s dumb to delete unless you’re constantly being harassed, but that’s just me. So if you’ve ever been deleted for something similar or different post and see how many more dumb or unnecessary reasons people get deleted.

1 & 2
its stupid really

**Kaylajoy21** · 04-14-2009, 11:39 PM

I just deleted a guy off mine. He added me, asked for pics. I said I had none. He offered to send one; I said if he wanted to. It was nude. He was deleted immediately.

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**dpileofashes** · 04-14-2009, 11:50 PM

Just happened to me in literally 2 minutes!

Someone dude from toronto just bbm-ed me from the forum and after a few short words asked for a pic- after refusing...he vanished

bizarre, but not out of the ordinary- one negative experience out of many positives-

**koehler104** · 04-14-2009, 11:51 PM

I agree all 3 reasons r stupid. I havnt that I've noticed been deleted so far. I did tho delete this 1 guy who said he was 17 an from Indonesia an kept askn 4 pix so I sent him a pic wit me holdn a .45 at the camera then kept askn for more even after I told him no, he even had the nerve 2 ask me 2 take a pic of me n my gf layn n bed n send it 2 him. But if ya want sum1 else 2 bs wit from time 2 time my pin is 304C4652

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**BrianW2007** · 04-14-2009, 11:54 PM

I'll delete people if they don't ever talk to me LOL
I've even had some very very strange ppl on BBM and they talked, so i never deleted them
However, after i wouldn't speak of 'certain' subjects they liked, I was deleted.. Hmph..

**BrianW2007** · 04-15-2009, 12:03 AM

Originally Posted by slick305

Wow @ that indonesian dude. I think I had one like that too, I think it was a indonesian guy. I didn't get why he kept wanting pics of me if he said he wasn't gay. Sending pics of myself to another guy is quite gay so I refused all the time.

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No FKIN way! I had some guy ask the same things!
wtf

**koehler104** · 04-15-2009, 12:03 AM

Originally Posted by slick305

Wow @ that indonesian dude. I think I had one like that too, I think it was a indonesian guy. I didn't get why he kept wanting pics of me if he said he wasn't gay. Sending pics of myself to another guy is quite gay so I refused all the time.

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U wouldn't happen 2 remember his bbm name would u

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**koehler104** · 04-15-2009, 12:21 AM

I did the same but it was the end of March I encountered this person

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**codyh3** · 04-15-2009, 01:08 AM

Dude!! That indonesian guy added me too! He kept constantly asking for pics. And even wanted nudes. And I'm a guy.. I refused and he deleted me haha.

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**codyh3** · 04-15-2009, 01:09 AM

His name was maynard.

Originally Posted by koehler104

U wouldn't happen 2 remember his bbm name would u

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**Hutch_** · 04-15-2009, 01:15 AM

When I delete someone, I make a note of their PIN so I won't add them again.

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**Username00089** · 04-15-2009, 01:20 AM

Originally Posted by Hutch_

When I delete someone, I make a note of their PIN so I won't add them again.

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Another thing you can do is save them under a group in your contacts. So that way each time you get a request, the name will come out. For example "Perv #8" and that way you know to reject right away.

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**cate** · 04-15-2009, 01:25 AM

Originally Posted by forever29

Another thing you can do is save them under a group in your contacts. So that way each time you get a request, the name will come out. For example "Perv #8" and that way you know to reject right away.

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Know that many creeps, huh?

lol jk

**Username00089** · 04-15-2009, 01:28 AM

Originally Posted by cate

Know that many creeps, huh?

lol jk

Lol no. I'm glad I'm not a female. I can't imagine the number of pervs who want nude pics right away.

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**koehler104** · 04-15-2009, 02:08 AM

Originally Posted by Codyh3

His name was maynard.

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Yep that was the exact same person

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**DrCoolBerry** · 04-15-2009, 02:26 AM

Originally Posted by koehler104

I agree all 3 reasons r stupid. I havnt that I've noticed been deleted so far. I did tho delete this 1 guy who said he was 17 an from Indonesia an kept askn 4 pix so I sent him a pic wit me holdn a .45 at the camera then kept askn for more even after I told him no, he even had the nerve 2 ask me 2 take a pic of me n my gf layn n bed n send it 2 him. But if ya want sum1 else 2 bs wit from time 2 time my pin is 304C4652

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dude that same f**ker added me maynard or something like that right? he added me and then made small talk and asked for a picture, and I said no. then he kept going so I asked him why he wants one, because we are both dudes and I am not particularly interested in exchanging pictures with a random guy, being a guy myself... he kept going so I deleted him....

**jontymisra** · 04-15-2009, 03:03 AM

Originally Posted by Mz Unique

Ok so I was just wondering how many others have been deleted off someone's BBM list because of something stupid. I've been using BBM for about 8 months now I've made about maybe 60-70 bbm friends and been deleted like over 30 times so far for these top 3 reasons:

1. I don't trade nudes
2. I have a boyfriend
3. I'm African American

I personally think it’s dumb to delete unless you’re constantly being harassed, but that’s just me. So if you’ve ever been deleted for something similar or different post and see how many more dumb or unnecessary reasons people get deleted.

Stupid reasons, all of em really.

For me it was
1. I'm a guy.
2. I'm a guy who's not homosexual (no offense to them but some guys dont get it)
3. I'm not sending nudes.

Oh and 4. I'm brown/Indian.

Oh well, I'm glad BBM exists. I've met some awesome people on it and talk to them on practically daily basis!

**koehler104** · 04-15-2009, 03:12 AM

Originally Posted by DrCoolBerry

dude that same f**ker added me maynard or something like that right? he added me and then made small talk and asked for a picture, and I said no. then he kept going so I asked him why he wants one, because we are both dudes and I am not particularly interested in exchanging pictures with a random guy, being a guy myself... he kept going so I deleted him....

Yep that was the exact same situation, he seems 2 b making quite a reputation

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**jdubz** · 04-15-2009, 03:13 AM

lol i usually delete ppl who adds me and doesn't talk

**koehler104** · 04-15-2009, 03:38 AM

Personally my thing is I don't want 2 seem creepy or nosey so I start runnin outta things 2 talk about
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**ChosenSoul** · 04-15-2009, 08:12 AM

O NO !!!!

That's wild! I just started doing the PIN sharing thing a few days ago and so far I've met some really cool folk.
I wouldn't send anyone naked pics of me over a cell phone unless we met and got REALLY CLOSE but dang! People are freaky and will do anything LMAO.

Why aren't these people scared you will take their naked pics and put them on the net. Then again, I guess if they are sending them through a cell phone then they are prolly already on the net.

To answer the OP question......Naw I haven't been deleted yet.
Everyone (especially females

) feel free to add me & chat PLATONICALLY.........
I'm not against meeting and chilling but you gotta get to know someone a lil and I def won't be sending nude pics...lol. Of me or anyone else.