Sorry to sound stupid, but my Verizon Tour just started doing this and I cant figure out why it is tormenting me so ! All of the sudden lately, when ever I delete an email or sms, the phone vibrates like I received a new message ( but did not ) .... I have gone through all the settings and cant see anything that has changed . The phone has been PERFECT so far for the last couple months and JUST started doing this. It drives me NUTS , cause when I delete the message that I just read and it vibrates when I close the program out, I think I deleted a new message and wondered what it was from and who :-)