If you're looking at the Media icon, a triangle shaped icon on the top right of my screen shot, that's a "play" icon. If you're speaking of the actual music icon, if your icon looks like a lower case d with a tail, that's a music note.
If you have a true "D" somewhere, please take a screen so I can try to hunt it down.
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