[yfdgjr]

So I don't use my blackberry with bluetooth very often, but I did set it up with the bluetooth in my boyfriends car the other day, just to play with it.

Now everytime I make or receive a call, the bluetooth symbol is at the top left and I have to click the trackball and select "activate handset" to use the phone. How do I make this the default setting? I've been searching online, here in the forums and on the phone for a long time and I can't figure it out...

[Tiassa]

try "Manage Connections -- Bluetooth Options" Select the listing for your boyfriend's car and choose "Device properties" (or "Delete device" if you just want to get rid of it), try changing the settings there, that might be what you need.