I am actually trying something else, Apparently im downloading 4.3 build 23 and what my cd comes with is 4.3 build 15 and stuff
But if you have a suggestion while IM waiting for this very slow download, please go ahead, as I assume you have something since you're asking if im logged in as admin...
No just trying to cover anything that hasn't been mentioned before. Have you tried the first choice on the install dialog that asks to locate and install? I'm pretty sure it can connect to windows update servers and search for a driver.
As long as you have a micro SD card installed, and "Mass Storage Mode" is enabled on your phone, any computer should see it as a removable drive once it's plugged in. I used to use my old Pearl that way all the time when I had it. No special drivers needed for that.