Don't know what happened, for the past few days the notifications just aren't being pushed to the app and I'm not receiving them. Didn't do anything different they just stopped working
While in the facebook app, click the bb key and choose options. Scroll down and click on the clear cache. This should fix your issue. I've noticed that this build of the facebook app is rather buggy in this regard.
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