CrackBerry Genius of Geniuses
Welcome to CrackBerry!
I am empathetic to your situation, and truly apologize for sounding blunt...
The short answer is that you need to input the proper and correct information.
From your post it seems that things are currently quite a mess.
You can try resetting your password here..
But, maybe you need to write down your information somewhere in a safe & secure place, store it in your memo pad, or on your PC for future use.
Maybe try all of the options presented if you have a hard time remembering your information.
If the password solution does not work, you can also attempt to create a new BBID.
Hope this helps....