can any one tell me how to make it to where it will quit telling me the memory is low it pops up blackberry app world and the only app i have bought since buying the phone which was color id
Your media card is separate from the device memory, you haven't added any memory to the phone, it's still the same as it was.
Read various threads here to find out how to save a little memory.
BTW, if you're running OS 5.xx go back to the older OS, 5.x requires more memory and some versions leak badly.
