ps.. I have two themes loaded onto my phone and I just switch out the wallpaper to change the look much easier, and cheaper, wallpapers are free, there is a wallpaper section in the Media forum here at CB..
Go for free ringtones, again, the ringtone section, loook at the top, youll see Ringtones..
1. Profiles > Advanced > Scroll to Profile you wish to use > Click Trackball
2. Scroll to option you wish not to ring / vibrate > Click Trackball
3. Set "Out of Holster" and "In Holster" to "None" if you wish neither tones or vibration for that alert type
4. Press Escape / Back (return arrow button right of trackball) > Select Save >
5. Repeat steps 2-4 above for all Alerts you wish to modify for Profile
6. Press Esc > Save.
7. Select Profile > Scroll to the profile you just modified, and Click Trackball to activate that profile. (Note, if you select to edit the profile set as ACTIVE in steps above, you can skip this step.
As others have mentioned, the 101 lecture series is a great place to get started in learning all the features and functions of your new phone. Another great place to look, is in the manual that came with the phone (I know I know, no one reads the manual , but there is some great information in there).