Same here. I have 4.6. I won't upgrade until the 5.0 has the bugs worked out and it's not a leaked version, but a public version. I have heard many people are having issues with 5.0.
I am currently using 509 and no complaints whatsoever. Try it out. Have you tried to installing it on 4.6? It might work albeit without the screen transitions.
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