As much as i didnt want to I finally bought jivetalk. I got a $5 off coupon
Coupon code: UPGRDE (could still be a usable coupon)
There are two licenses the $20 one time one.. or a transferrable one at $30. Id HIGHLY recommend this.. incase your BB breaks you can move it to a new blackberry.
Its the -first- piece of blackberry software that I have ever bought. The reason why aside from it being good is that it is stable and I was able to utilize the 30 day 'GENEROUS' trial.